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i jus found out 2day dat ma grl is pregnant, she told me this morning an soon after
words broke up with me, she told me she has feelings 4 me but shes confused rit now,
an i understand because i am 2 im about 2 put my life on hold an get bout 3 jobs 2 take
care of her an dis kid an also so she can finish college. im jus cant figure out y she broke
up with me tho, im tryn 2 giv her sum space so that me an her can figrue things out, an
i also realize that right now its not really bout me an her its mor about dis kid, im jus
really afraid dat she may go out hav dis kid solo bcuz shes afraid of putting a burden on
me bcuz she nos iv had alot on my mind wit all tha shit dats ben goin on dat way, all i no
is i wanna b ther 4 her an dis kid an im willin 2 do wateva it takes to make a good life 4
the both of them i jus dont no wat 2 do tho sinc she done broke up wit me an shit any1
who can tell me anything bout wat 2 do plz help me out
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AYO CHECK IT, YOU DNT HAVE NUTHIN 2 WORRY BOUT CUZ THATS YOUR KIDS MOTHER NOW AND YOU 2 HAVE A BOND THAT NO BODY CAN BRAKE! SHE''S ALWAYS GONNA BE YOURS NO MATTER WAT HAPPENS! SO NOW YOU HAVE 2 SHOW HER THAT YOUR ARE READY 2 TAKE CARE OF HER AND THA BABY! YOUR A MAN NOW MY DUDE! SO GET THAT MONEY! AND SHE AINT GOIN NO WHERE! SO TAKE THIS TIME 2 GET YOUR SELF 2GETHER! EVERYTHINGZ GONNA BE GOOD MY DUDE! JUS PUT EVERYTHING IN GODZ HANDZ!! HOLLA!
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1. MY FIRST ADVICE WOIULD BE..DO NOT SEEK HELP ON INTERNET RAP SITES, HALF THESE KIDS, ARE TOO YOUNG WIPE THEIR OWN ASS.
2. TIME TO MAN THE FUCK UP. GREAT YOUR GETTING JOBS. HAVING 3 JOBS DOESNT MAKE YOU A GOOD FATHER THO. IF SHE WANTS TO BE ON HER OWN, LET HER BE BUT TELL HER YOU WANT TO BE IN THIS CHILDS LIFE AS MUCH AS SHE IS. THIS DOESNT MEAN WAIT UNTIL THE BABYS BORN THEN POP RIGHT IN THERE ACTIN LIKE DADDY OF THE YEAR. MAKE SURE THE MOTHER IS GOOD THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY. GO TO HER APPOINTMENTS WITH HER, MAKE SURE SHE'S TAKIN PRE-NATAL VITAMINS, SHOW THAT YOU DO CARE.
3. AGAIN MAN THE FUCK UP....I DONT KNOW YOUR AGE BUT IF YOUR YOUNG, WELL YOUR ABOUT TO GOTO A TEEN TO AROUND 27-28. YA NOT GONNA GO PUT CLUBBIN, PARTYIN, ETC..... AND WHATEVER YOU DONT, DO NOT LET YOUR PARENT(S) OR HERS BECOME PARENT(S) AGAIN. YOU TAKE CARE OF THAT KID, THEY ALREADY HAD THEIR TIME RAISING KIDS!!!!!!!!
LASTLY, STOP TYPIN THE WAY YOU DO & HOPEFULLY YOU DONT SPEAK IN THAT MANNER. DIS DAT, WATEVA.... MAN THE FUCK UP & START SPEAKING PROPERLY TO SET AN EXAMPLE FOR YOUR KID!!!!!
G/L & IF YA HAVE ANY OTHER QUESTIONS, HIT ME UP!!!!!
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5/31/2008 1:47:54 PM |
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YEAH BENT'S LIKE 40, BUT EVERYONE'S DIFFERENT AND HAVE DIFFERENT SITUATIONS! SO TAKE ALL THA ADVICE YOU CAN!
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streetop assasin
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appreciate the advice a hell of alot, rit now im jus tryn 2 get advice from anywer dat i can, an bent da reason i type dis way is cuz it takes me foreva to typ so dis is quika 4 me 2 do. but thanks both of yall 4 tha advice
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6/1/2008 4:33:02 AM |
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damn dude congrats. i just got a boy and hes 3 months now.
but really. if you and your girl work together and everything works out it's not as hard as people make it seem. Set up WIC and Medicaid. shit will put u on for real. You get basically everything free.
If you feel you can't handle it and you love her ask her to marry you and join the military. You'll get benfits for her, you and the baby.. make money and go to school there. Plus the way the economy is it's pretty much the only way to go.
Plus she'll go everywhere you go if yous are married.
but follow bents advice. be with her her whole pregnancy and give her whatever she needs. don't stress her either. don't want the girl to miscarriage late in the pregnancy. it's not something you'll want to experience.
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6/1/2008 4:55:24 AM |
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yo bro she's probably just confused at the moment. it wasent planned and when your young its easy to get confused and scared about this shit especially since both ya'lls main priority is now going to be focusing on preparing to welcome this new miracle into your lives. my thing is just talk to her. explain to her that you love her and she dosent have to do this alone, share your fears with her and tell her things will be ok cuz your gonna be there every step of the way. bents right too though you need to attend every appointment regarding her pregnancy and hell maybe even sign up for parenting classes together. good luck though G
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posted by PSYCHO1617
YEAH BENT'S LIKE 40, BUT EVERYONE'S DIFFERENT AND HAVE DIFFERENT SITUATIONS! SO TAKE ALL THA ADVICE YOU CAN!
THATS HELLA CLOSE
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6/23/2008 5:01:22 PM |
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1. STOP GIVIN THAT BITCH MONEY.....DAT MAKE U LOOK LIKE A TRICK AND A SOFT NIGGA......MAKE SURE UR MONEY GOES TO UR CHILD AND NOT HER HAIR AND NAILS
2. BUY DIAPERS, A CRIB, BABY BOOKS, AND START LOOKIN AT PRESCHOOLS
3. TELL THE BITCH THAT IF SHE WANNA BE WIT U SHE GOTTA BE SOLO AND SHIT, CAUSE FROM HER REACTION, IT SOUND LIKE SHE GOT A COUPLE NIGGAS NIGGAS ON THA SIDE
4. DONT TELL UR FAMILY UNTIL UR SURE SHE GONNA KEEP IT
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^^Why would be start looking at preschools?, the baby isnt even born yet man^^
But I really dont got much advice for ya cuzz I aint been in nothing like that yet, but just hold ya head pimpin
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quote
posted by BIGBENT
1. MY FIRST ADVICE WOIULD BE..DO NOT SEEK HELP ON INTERNET RAP SITES, HALF THESE KIDS, ARE TOO YOUNG WIPE THEIR OWN ASS.
2. TIME TO MAN THE FUCK UP. GREAT YOUR GETTING JOBS. HAVING 3 JOBS DOESNT MAKE YOU A GOOD FATHER THO. IF SHE WANTS TO BE ON HER OWN, LET HER BE BUT TELL HER YOU WANT TO BE IN THIS CHILDS LIFE AS MUCH AS SHE IS. THIS DOESNT MEAN WAIT UNTIL THE BABYS BORN THEN POP RIGHT IN THERE ACTIN LIKE DADDY OF THE YEAR. MAKE SURE THE MOTHER IS GOOD THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY. GO TO HER APPOINTMENTS WITH HER, MAKE SURE SHE'S TAKIN PRE-NATAL VITAMINS, SHOW THAT YOU DO CARE.
3. AGAIN MAN THE FUCK UP....I DONT KNOW YOUR AGE BUT IF YOUR YOUNG, WELL YOUR ABOUT TO GOTO A TEEN TO AROUND 27-28. YA NOT GONNA GO PUT CLUBBIN, PARTYIN, ETC..... AND WHATEVER YOU DONT, DO NOT LET YOUR PARENT(S) OR HERS BECOME PARENT(S) AGAIN. YOU TAKE CARE OF THAT KID, THEY ALREADY HAD THEIR TIME RAISING KIDS!!!!!!!!
LASTLY, STOP TYPIN THE WAY YOU DO & HOPEFULLY YOU DONT SPEAK IN THAT MANNER. DIS DAT, WATEVA.... MAN THE FUCK UP & START SPEAKING PROPERLY TO SET AN EXAMPLE FOR YOUR KID!!!!!
G/L & IF YA HAVE ANY OTHER QUESTIONS, HIT ME UP!!!!!
Co-Sign.
Bent, your caps lock button is stuck.
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